Be More than a Leader—Be a FRIEND
Effective leaders value people. Romans 12:10 encourages us to “Love
each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each
other.” We have a responsibility to befriend those we lead. Here are a
few reminders to help in this process.
Expect nothing in return—By accepting others unconditionally, we
give room for the Holy Spirit to work freely in and through us.
Remember, “We love because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19).
Show a genuine interest in others—Begin by being considerate. Then,
look for the best in others. Make an effort to learn what is happening
in the lives of those you lead. Galatians 6:2 tells us to “Share each
other’s troubles and problems, and in this way obey the law of Christ.”
Take time to understand others—People are as unique as snowflakes—no
two are ever alike. With such variety, we should take time to
appreciate the differences in one another. So be patient and keep
Learn the art of listening—Hearing is one thing; listening is quite
another. Listening requires focus and attention. Listening also means
we care enough to comprehend what the other person is actually saying.
Treat everyone equally—James asks, “My dear brothers and sisters,
how can you claim that you have faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ
if you favor some people more than others?” (James 2:1). True
friendship shows no favoritism.
Be an encourager —Hebrews 10:24 says we are to “Consider how we may
spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” Encouragement is
powerful, and when used correctly it frequently produces positive
results. Give encouragement liberally.
Show you care—Don’t just say you care—show you care. Actions speak
volumes. Make it a point to give a hug, remember a name, give a card or
note, open a door, pray for and with a friend, ask about her and listen
to her answer.
Emphasize the positive—Philippians 4:8 instructs us to fix our
thoughts on what is true, good, and right. We are to think about what
is pure and lovely, and dwell on the fine, good things in others. As we
do, we recognize characteristics in our friends for which we can praise
God and be glad.
— Arlene Allen
Traits in Leadership
by Ellen White
Kindness: The Power of Kindness—We may never know until the judgment
the influence of a kind, considerate course of action to the
inconsistent, the unreasonable, and unworthy. Christian Leadership 7.1.
Humility: God Exalts the Humble—He is most fit to carry
responsibilities and command who most resembles God in Character, – in
goodness, mercy, and staunch loyalty to the cause and work of God.
Letter 39, 1898, p.13.
Integrity: Position does not Make the Man. It is the integrity of
character, the spirit of Christ that makes him thankful, unselfish,
without partiality and without hypocrisy – it is this that is value
with God. Testimonies to Ministers, 356.
Influence: Every word spoken, every work performed, will have an
influence that corresponds to influence of heaven. Review and Herald,
April 28, 1903.
Trusting God: To wait patiently, to trust when everything looks
dark, is the lesson that the leaders in God’s work need to learn.
Heaven will not fail them in their day of adversity. Prophets and
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